Advice Letter: She Left Me For Her Loser Ex...

Dear Miss Dimplez,
Love your site and appreciate this advice column because it gives men like me a chance to ask a female some questions and not get some bullshit answers. Let me tell you what happened.. I am your average good guy. And you know what they say, nice guys finish last ;), but in this case, it's not a good thing. My girlfriend of two months broke up with me yesterday, and her reasoning was that she is not over her ex-boyfriend, when they broke up over six months ago. They were together for over a year and a half. And while they were together, he had sex with two other girls, cheating on her. He was a thug, didn't treat her right, and she even admitted he was not the kind of guy she wanted at all. With him she had to lie to her parents, but with me, her parents love me! My first question is why do girls always go for the bad guys, the ones who break their hearts? Then they find a good guy, break his heart, and go back to the bad guy.. My second question is what can a guy do to make a girl realize she is making a mistake and about to get her heart broken again?
Sincerely,
The Good Guy

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Dear Good Guy,
You were her rebound relationship, and as awful as her ex-treated her, you pale in comparison. There is some sense of comfort that she finds in him, but most likely will never recognize in you. A majority of us women make this mistake everyday. We try to stick to loser that we're used to, in efforts to save ourselves from different types of 'hurt' we're not ready for. Why do some of us women go for the 'bad guy'? Initially its excitement, and then we start to think we can change our men... Nothing short of a negative experience can make a girl 'realize' her mistake. This is something she has to do, a mistake she has to make, and an experience she'll hopefully learn from. You need to accept that and move on. There are some good girls out there who still want the good guy.
- Miss Dimplez